I don't care if you like me. Well that is not entirely true. It would be honest of me to say that a part of me cares, but that part that cares is not as loud as it used to me. You see as I have come to realize that I have work to do on this planet, I have not become focused on how many "likes" I get. My focus has shifted to a love of self and my dreams.
I am grateful for everyone who is in my life. I am careful and caring around them, but not because I want them to like me, it is because I really do not see much difference between them and me. If I am mean to another I am mean to myself. If I am angry at another, I am angry at myself. I do not offer my hand of gratitude and love to another in hopes that I get it in return. I offer it because I offer the same hand to myself.
If someone has a person grudge against me, or if someone is upset over what I say or do, it is not an attack on my, nor do I need them to change or see my perspective. I can honor that whatever is being projected on me is a shadow of the other person and as I do with my shadows I love them and hold them in beauty. I can do the same for another person.
I am selfish. I love myself. I honor myself. I honor myself through how I treat other people. I do not expect reciprocity. I do not expect a response even. I just love others as a practice of loving myself. I k